Play therapy is a structured form of psychotherapy, primarily for children roughly ages 3 to 12, that uses play as a natural medium for expressing emotion, working through difficult experiences, and addressing behavioural concerns.

Children often don’t yet have the verbal skills to talk through complex feelings the way an adult might, so play becomes the more natural language.

Therapists distinguish directive, therapist-guided, approaches from non-directive, child-led, ones, a useful distinction for understanding what a given session might actually look like.

More Than Supervised Playing

To a parent watching, play therapy can look like ordinary playtime, but it’s more like a doctor reading an X-ray: the play itself is the visible surface, while the therapist is trained to notice the patterns and themes underneath that a child can’t yet put into words.

This Approach in Therapy

A therapist working this way pays close attention to what recurs in a child’s play, what characters or scenarios keep showing up, what gets avoided, using those patterns to understand what’s going on for the child rather than simply supervising the session.

This entry is for general education, to make play therapy easier to understand. It reflects one specific, child-focused modality, not the whole picture. It isn’t a diagnosis or a replacement for professional help, and it can’t tell you whether this approach is available or the right fit for your child.

Sukaina Nathoo, Clinical Director & Registered Psychotherapist
Sukaina Nathoo, Clinical Director & Registered Psychotherapist

Sukaina Nathoo

Clinical Director, Registered Psychotherapist

Sukaina Nathoo

Clinical Director, Registered Psychotherapist

Sukaina Nathoo is a registered psychotherapist in Ontario, Canada with over 20 years of experience in the field of mental health.

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